In
the age of technology, we get friends or we can make friend by social Medias like
facebook, twitter, pinterest or google plus or some other internet chatting
sites. I would like to put questions you are they your real friend? It seems to
me that real friends is person who would warn you when you do wrong or being
committed doing wrong. Do you recognize who is your real friend? Do you aware
of counterfeit friend? I think they are your real friend who thinks straight
and talks straight and whom you get in the time of trouble. When you would make
friend you should consider that age is not barrier to friendship. Main thing is
to understand each other. If your friend understands you, you can share your
feelings and thoughts. We see in Bible that a model friendship between David
and Jonathan-and Jonathan was old enough to be David’s father!
So
it is proved that age could not be barrier to make friendship. In our holly
scripture there are many instances about friendship. You should also consider
that is your friend really religious minded or not. Has he god fearing? If he
does than he would not commit any offensive work which may not be harmful for
you.
Who
walks with wise person he potentially becomes wise, the first step of making friendship
is having interest on each other. Often the simplest things such as sharing a
meal together or assisting someone with his task, can serve to deepen your friendship.
One of the characteristic of friendship is being a good listener. To become a good
friend you have to posses the quality of loyalties. Will you really stick with
your friend when he passes rough times? Asks you mind that is your friend
honest or not. You should not pour your emotions to everyone that you meet. But
you can be honest with everyone. Trust you friend, you can gradually reveal
more of your deepest feeling. Empathy and fellow feeling is essential for meaningful
friendship. You are not supposed to think about your friend that he would be
perfectionist. One person may not know everything. Sometimes you have to
sacrifice for greater interest keeping your friendship. Avoid such kinds of friend that who
experiments with sex, stealing and cheating with others. Who are addicted to
drugs or engage with anti-social activities. You should not keep company with
them.
In
brief, you should be cautious when you make friend. Consider this, is your
friend good listener or can you trust him or is he honest? A good friend may change
your life in proper time and proper way. On the other hand, a counterfeit
friend can lead you in wrong way or may destroy your future. Real friend is
comparable with nothing. A friend loves at all times and becomes a brother in
times of trouble.